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So that strategy might not work. That's something you've been tossing around though, this idea of isolating a little bit more, and drinking a little less. Seems like all your options here kind of grim. Yeah, that's just that's just me doesn't seem that way to you too.	0id
Now that I'm like	0id
talking through it, yeah.	3gc
I'd like don't think I have any choice really	10od
have any choice? What's going to happen is going to happen?	4crq
I don't know.	9on
All right. So let's start with the lead now. Pick up with me now. You don't want to make it bad impression in this whole court proceeding with a DUI. What do you think you could do that would make a bad impression?	1irq
Um, go to court drug	0id
I would do it.	0id
Get another DUI in the meantime, that was not good either.	0id
So you want to avoid those behaviors for sure. So you know, for sure you don't want to have sex? Would it be acceptable those things anyway?	1irq
I mean, not really. I mean, I think I should avoid does not like drunk driving enough. Or maybe not during the day of my court date,	0id
So would you appreciate those skulls like avoiding those situations I go in the court truck	0id
Yeah.	7ack
Goals that you could get behind	0id
I mean, I can try I guess to like think about it and Charlie get out now I'm gonna be stressed out ate my court date. It's gonna be hard to like not drink that day.	0id
You're not striking me as overly enthusiastic about this idea.	10od
Now	3gc
this is really tough for you is the outcome. The marriage laws are important. Yeah, this whole this book, do you I think it's really just encroached on something you had going on that you enjoyed. Yeah. So is this an inconvenience that you can move past or is this a major life with fat that is gonna change things	0id
I don't know because I don't know any other like way around it then just dealing with it. I mean, if I like don't go to court or anything that's like a worn out for me like I can't, I can't avoid this situation.	0id
But if there's a condition of your treatment, the judge says no more drinking is no more marijuana period. We can see that that if you obey those rules or word, jail	0id
now, I couldn't get to that. I know it possibly could probably well, but I was I don't know.	0id
I would think it almost certainly would have happened. Yeah.	0id
I don't know what I'm gonna do.	9on
back a couple of steps. How long have you been using the alcohol marijuana?	1irq
For about like, six years, six years.	0id
Have you ever until now with the DUI, have you ever envisioned stopping? Now, what's your plan? Like pre d? Why was your plan and all this?	5yq
I just had dinner like the jerking kind of has gotten worse.	0id
Yeah. So without this or something you would have continued using?	5yq
Yeah, I didn't really have any like	0id
until now. Yeah. Could this be a strange way like an opportunity?	5yq
I mean, I guess if I had if I wanted to stop by this would be a way for me to stop or reason for me to stop.	0id
If you really wanted to stop because your stuff	0id
I don't know.	9on
you could give a shot. You're just not sure you could. You could actually do it.	0id
Yeah, I mean, I've never tried to before so I don't know.	9on
It's just unknown.	0id
Yeah, yeah.	7ack
So where do you want to go from here you have this to you, I imagine a hearing or some type of Coming up here to see me. What can I do to help you?	1irq
Um,	3gc
like a like a place in terms of your thinking like your mentality.	1irq
Yeah.	7ack
Okay, you want to work on that? Yeah. So between now I'm gonna see you again. Do you have any hearings or anything coming up? Now they're not for like a few more weeks, few weeks. So I'll see you again. And I have the IEP and everything here. second week. Let's pick up with that. They think changes we're hearing is moved up to slumping, okay. Okay.	0id
Thanks for helping.	2gt
Thank you.	2gt
Hello Kathy, how are you today?	2gt
Okay.	0id
I know when we spoke last time, you had some goals you want to talk about this time? You're ready to do that?	5yq
I need to Yeah, yeah.	8op
What do you have in mind?	1irq
I just keep thinking about you know, losing this weight and I just really want to do it. I just I just can't get there and I don't know why. too frustrated. Its ridiculous	0id
frustated Trying to lose the weight. Now you'd said before that you had a specific number of pounds of specific amount of weight to lose. You still have that in mind?	5yq
I would like 20 pounds 20 pounds. I mean, I would like more but I, I've tried to do more in the past and I don't even get past couple of days. So I can do 20 that would be great.	8op
Right, and you tried before? And what do you think got in the way?	1irq
I don't know. I guess it wasn't convenient. You know.	0id
Yeah.	7ack
Just like something always gets in the way, you know, and then I lose focus. I'm not very good at staying focused on stuff like that.	0id
Loss of focus. So you start trying to lose the weight and your focus gets disrupted.	6cd
And I forget and then I make you know, spaghetti casserole for six people and then I eat a lot of it and that's carbs and cheese and fat and then I, you know, will eat with my kids don't eat and then it's just like I forget that I'm supposed to be making healthy choices.	0id
Alright, so you know, how to lose weight. And you know, you can lose weight. But your focus is a little off when you're trying and that's causing the problem. Could we break that goal of losing 20 pounds down into smaller units? Like say, five pounds	0id
Do you think?	4crq
It's just something you can do.	6cd
I am so busy	0id
for once a week.	0id
I probably do once a week	0id
You mentioned the loss of focus is one problem. How about motivation, you feel motivated to move through all those steps like five pounds and five pounds and so on.	0id
Right now, yes. I think I would need something to keep me going. You know, week to week,	0id
a little bit of that something extra to help you stay motivated.	6cd
Yeah. Like, when your kid does \their homework early, you can give them a special treat for dessert like that helps, you know, keep it going.	0id
Okay. So some sort of activity or item that you enjoy, that you could reserve for when you reach that goal of say that the first five pounds	0id
I would love I mean, I've just been so embarrassed, you know,	0id
All right. Do you have the activity or item in mind? We could put in place as something you could reward yourself with?	1irq
Like after the first five pounds?	4crq
Well, there's a few ways we could do it. We could do that. So you reach five pounds. And then you can give yourself that reward work could be for something you do every day. If that day you're successful in eating the way you want, he would you think would motivate you more?	6cd
Maybe something every day.	0id
Yes, you know, each and every day as you're trying to lose weight. You're aware. When that day comes to close if you had a successful night, they were a less than successful day, right? If you have a successful day, then you could engage in an activity or receiving items that we work out in advance that, you know, would motivate you.Right?	0id
And that could be, you know, maybe watching like a favorite TV show. Okay, you know, because I don't watch TV at night, because I'm so busy cleaning up and everything. Maybe I could just take some time for myself, because I did something good. You know, I just watch a TV show.	0id
So let's let's do that. On a day, you know, towards the evening. When you know, you have had a successful day and by what time would you know, in the evening?	1irq
Probably as I'm preparing dinner, if I prepare food dinner, or if I prepare fun food for my kids, but I don't eat it like chicken nuggets and french fries and stuff.	0id
Let's say some Okay, say so by 7pm at that point in terms of the day being successful or less than successful, you know, okay, right at 7pm, you're aware. And at that point, if you have met your call, then you have a you have a TV show that you maybe it's recorded on a TV or something you would watch, okay? And if you were not as successful you would write. So I'd be like something to keep you motivated about the day because you really want to watch that show. Right? A lot of fun. Do you think that structure, that kind of behavioral strategy would give you enough motivation to have successful days so it's process?	0id
I don't know honestly, but it would probably be the way right now	0id
And this is something you could also track. Right? You could write down days that are successful days or lessons less than successful. And we could look at if there's any patterns, maybe weekends are harder, because they're easier or something where we can identify days that have maybe more triggers or we're less motivated.	0id
Yeah, I didn't think about that. Because right every day would be different.	0id
Okay, there's the potential for every day to be different with what you're exposed to, and what temptations in terms of different foods, what your schedules like maybe for busier things easier. So we can We can look at those different patterns. And we can add levels to this plan. Okay, but for now we'll go with the TV show that you'll watch sometime after seven, seven, you evaluate how you did, sometime after that. watch the show, okay? That's like a plan.	0id
So that's leading up to the five pounds. Right? Right. Okay,	4crq
day by day, okay, this and five pound increments, okay, four times to get to your goal. 20 pounds. Okay. Sounds good. So far. So, we'll give that a shot. And we'll take a look at the pattern that emerges, support everything. I say, write everything down. Okay, probably at around seven is a good time. When you know kind of day ahead, write down kind of what happened that day and whether you've had success or not. And bring that in. I'll see you again week. So give us I'll give you seven, seven days to work with. Okay? And we'll look at that log of events. And we'll reevaluate each week.	6cd
So I could start tonight	4crq
starts tonight, okay.	6cd
All right.	3gc
So we'll give that a shot and I'll see it a week.	0id
Okay, thanks, Kevin.	2gt
people your age, it's very different for this generation who do have a lot of it figured out. So, if I asked you, how would you describe yourself, and it can be on any dimensions, how would you describe yourself?	1irq
How do you know that?	5yq
Yes.	3gc
Okay. It would be good for me just to stop and ask you what, what is your ethnic and racial background?	1irq
My father's of Latino descent mother's African American, okay.	0id
So after that encounter nets, third grade, your dad goes, he's Latino. Goes to pick up your report card and to pick you up. How are you treated differently after that?	1irq
Well, the next day I went to school at a note embed They staple it to show. So when I got home, of course, my mother had to know, they went to parent teacher conference. And when we got there, I was actually the room. And when I got the gist of it, I told my parents how me being mixed race ways to learn or by having two different parents at the time could be a bad thing for me, because I went to a predominantly African American but he's obese something so like, you know, apples and oranges don't mix. You know, Black Black Black History Month came around. And you know, you had a chance to pick some who wants to be a pick Harriet Tubman. No, and I was like, Oh, you're not black enough to be her and they had pictures on the wall. And look at her. She's black. You know what, when you put black paint on your face, and you don't always like to be a slave and things like that. So it became up. I wasn;t hurt and it was I didn't understand that.	0id
And I'm sure none of it hurt at that point.	0id
I don't think it was. I just didn't understand what a pity party No, but at times, but it just sort of get to yours because there's age where the kids get sort of meaner about the teasing and aren't really even High School thinking. High School, the same thing came up, just put in a Cinco de Mayo. And of African American students are probably one of the Latino students had a problem with it's when I'm caught in the middle.	0id

So that strategy might not work. That's something you've been tossing around though, this idea of isolating a little bit more, and drinking a little less. Seems like all your options here kind of grim. Yeah, that's just that's just me doesn't seem that way to you too.

0id

Now that I'm like

0id

talking through it, yeah.

3gc

I'd like don't think I have any choice really

10od

have any choice? What's going to happen is going to happen?

4crq

I don't know.

9on

All right. So let's start with the lead now. Pick up with me now. You don't want to make it bad impression in this whole court proceeding with a DUI. What do you think you could do that would make a bad impression?

1irq

Um, go to court drug

0id

I would do it.

0id

Get another DUI in the meantime, that was not good either.

0id

So you want to avoid those behaviors for sure. So you know, for sure you don't want to have sex? Would it be acceptable those things anyway?

1irq

I mean, not really. I mean, I think I should avoid does not like drunk driving enough. Or maybe not during the day of my court date,

0id

So would you appreciate those skulls like avoiding those situations I go in the court truck

0id

Yeah.

7ack

Goals that you could get behind

0id

I mean, I can try I guess to like think about it and Charlie get out now I'm gonna be stressed out ate my court date. It's gonna be hard to like not drink that day.

0id

You're not striking me as overly enthusiastic about this idea.

10od

Now

3gc

this is really tough for you is the outcome. The marriage laws are important. Yeah, this whole this book, do you I think it's really just encroached on something you had going on that you enjoyed. Yeah. So is this an inconvenience that you can move past or is this a major life with fat that is gonna change things

0id

I don't know because I don't know any other like way around it then just dealing with it. I mean, if I like don't go to court or anything that's like a worn out for me like I can't, I can't avoid this situation.

0id

But if there's a condition of your treatment, the judge says no more drinking is no more marijuana period. We can see that that if you obey those rules or word, jail

0id

now, I couldn't get to that. I know it possibly could probably well, but I was I don't know.

0id

I would think it almost certainly would have happened. Yeah.

0id

I don't know what I'm gonna do.

9on

back a couple of steps. How long have you been using the alcohol marijuana?

1irq

For about like, six years, six years.

0id

Have you ever until now with the DUI, have you ever envisioned stopping? Now, what's your plan? Like pre d? Why was your plan and all this?

5yq

I just had dinner like the jerking kind of has gotten worse.

0id

Yeah. So without this or something you would have continued using?

5yq

Yeah, I didn't really have any like

0id

until now. Yeah. Could this be a strange way like an opportunity?

5yq

I mean, I guess if I had if I wanted to stop by this would be a way for me to stop or reason for me to stop.

0id

If you really wanted to stop because your stuff

0id

I don't know.

9on

you could give a shot. You're just not sure you could. You could actually do it.

0id

Yeah, I mean, I've never tried to before so I don't know.

9on

It's just unknown.

0id

Yeah, yeah.

7ack

So where do you want to go from here you have this to you, I imagine a hearing or some type of Coming up here to see me. What can I do to help you?

1irq

Um,

3gc

like a like a place in terms of your thinking like your mentality.

1irq

Yeah.

7ack

Okay, you want to work on that? Yeah. So between now I'm gonna see you again. Do you have any hearings or anything coming up? Now they're not for like a few more weeks, few weeks. So I'll see you again. And I have the IEP and everything here. second week. Let's pick up with that. They think changes we're hearing is moved up to slumping, okay. Okay.

0id

Thanks for helping.

2gt

Thank you.

2gt

Hello Kathy, how are you today?

2gt

Okay.

0id

I know when we spoke last time, you had some goals you want to talk about this time? You're ready to do that?

5yq

I need to Yeah, yeah.

8op

What do you have in mind?

1irq

I just keep thinking about you know, losing this weight and I just really want to do it. I just I just can't get there and I don't know why. too frustrated. Its ridiculous

0id

frustated Trying to lose the weight. Now you'd said before that you had a specific number of pounds of specific amount of weight to lose. You still have that in mind?

5yq

I would like 20 pounds 20 pounds. I mean, I would like more but I, I've tried to do more in the past and I don't even get past couple of days. So I can do 20 that would be great.

8op

Right, and you tried before? And what do you think got in the way?

1irq

I don't know. I guess it wasn't convenient. You know.

0id

Yeah.

7ack

Just like something always gets in the way, you know, and then I lose focus. I'm not very good at staying focused on stuff like that.

0id

Loss of focus. So you start trying to lose the weight and your focus gets disrupted.

6cd

And I forget and then I make you know, spaghetti casserole for six people and then I eat a lot of it and that's carbs and cheese and fat and then I, you know, will eat with my kids don't eat and then it's just like I forget that I'm supposed to be making healthy choices.

0id

Alright, so you know, how to lose weight. And you know, you can lose weight. But your focus is a little off when you're trying and that's causing the problem. Could we break that goal of losing 20 pounds down into smaller units? Like say, five pounds

0id

Do you think?

4crq

It's just something you can do.

6cd

I am so busy

0id

for once a week.

0id

I probably do once a week

0id

You mentioned the loss of focus is one problem. How about motivation, you feel motivated to move through all those steps like five pounds and five pounds and so on.

0id

Right now, yes. I think I would need something to keep me going. You know, week to week,

0id

a little bit of that something extra to help you stay motivated.

6cd

Yeah. Like, when your kid does \their homework early, you can give them a special treat for dessert like that helps, you know, keep it going.

0id

Okay. So some sort of activity or item that you enjoy, that you could reserve for when you reach that goal of say that the first five pounds

0id

I would love I mean, I've just been so embarrassed, you know,

0id

All right. Do you have the activity or item in mind? We could put in place as something you could reward yourself with?

1irq

Like after the first five pounds?

4crq

Well, there's a few ways we could do it. We could do that. So you reach five pounds. And then you can give yourself that reward work could be for something you do every day. If that day you're successful in eating the way you want, he would you think would motivate you more?

6cd

Maybe something every day.

0id

Yes, you know, each and every day as you're trying to lose weight. You're aware. When that day comes to close if you had a successful night, they were a less than successful day, right? If you have a successful day, then you could engage in an activity or receiving items that we work out in advance that, you know, would motivate you.Right?

0id

And that could be, you know, maybe watching like a favorite TV show. Okay, you know, because I don't watch TV at night, because I'm so busy cleaning up and everything. Maybe I could just take some time for myself, because I did something good. You know, I just watch a TV show.

0id

So let's let's do that. On a day, you know, towards the evening. When you know, you have had a successful day and by what time would you know, in the evening?

1irq

Probably as I'm preparing dinner, if I prepare food dinner, or if I prepare fun food for my kids, but I don't eat it like chicken nuggets and french fries and stuff.

0id

Let's say some Okay, say so by 7pm at that point in terms of the day being successful or less than successful, you know, okay, right at 7pm, you're aware. And at that point, if you have met your call, then you have a you have a TV show that you maybe it's recorded on a TV or something you would watch, okay? And if you were not as successful you would write. So I'd be like something to keep you motivated about the day because you really want to watch that show. Right? A lot of fun. Do you think that structure, that kind of behavioral strategy would give you enough motivation to have successful days so it's process?

0id

I don't know honestly, but it would probably be the way right now

0id

And this is something you could also track. Right? You could write down days that are successful days or lessons less than successful. And we could look at if there's any patterns, maybe weekends are harder, because they're easier or something where we can identify days that have maybe more triggers or we're less motivated.

0id

Yeah, I didn't think about that. Because right every day would be different.

0id

Okay, there's the potential for every day to be different with what you're exposed to, and what temptations in terms of different foods, what your schedules like maybe for busier things easier. So we can We can look at those different patterns. And we can add levels to this plan. Okay, but for now we'll go with the TV show that you'll watch sometime after seven, seven, you evaluate how you did, sometime after that. watch the show, okay? That's like a plan.

0id

So that's leading up to the five pounds. Right? Right. Okay,

4crq

day by day, okay, this and five pound increments, okay, four times to get to your goal. 20 pounds. Okay. Sounds good. So far. So, we'll give that a shot. And we'll take a look at the pattern that emerges, support everything. I say, write everything down. Okay, probably at around seven is a good time. When you know kind of day ahead, write down kind of what happened that day and whether you've had success or not. And bring that in. I'll see you again week. So give us I'll give you seven, seven days to work with. Okay? And we'll look at that log of events. And we'll reevaluate each week.

6cd

So I could start tonight

4crq

starts tonight, okay.

6cd

All right.

3gc

So we'll give that a shot and I'll see it a week.

0id

Okay, thanks, Kevin.

2gt

people your age, it's very different for this generation who do have a lot of it figured out. So, if I asked you, how would you describe yourself, and it can be on any dimensions, how would you describe yourself?

1irq

How do you know that?

5yq

Yes.

3gc

Okay. It would be good for me just to stop and ask you what, what is your ethnic and racial background?

1irq

My father's of Latino descent mother's African American, okay.

0id

So after that encounter nets, third grade, your dad goes, he's Latino. Goes to pick up your report card and to pick you up. How are you treated differently after that?

1irq

Well, the next day I went to school at a note embed They staple it to show. So when I got home, of course, my mother had to know, they went to parent teacher conference. And when we got there, I was actually the room. And when I got the gist of it, I told my parents how me being mixed race ways to learn or by having two different parents at the time could be a bad thing for me, because I went to a predominantly African American but he's obese something so like, you know, apples and oranges don't mix. You know, Black Black Black History Month came around. And you know, you had a chance to pick some who wants to be a pick Harriet Tubman. No, and I was like, Oh, you're not black enough to be her and they had pictures on the wall. And look at her. She's black. You know what, when you put black paint on your face, and you don't always like to be a slave and things like that. So it became up. I wasn;t hurt and it was I didn't understand that.

0id

And I'm sure none of it hurt at that point.

0id

I don't think it was. I just didn't understand what a pity party No, but at times, but it just sort of get to yours because there's age where the kids get sort of meaner about the teasing and aren't really even High School thinking. High School, the same thing came up, just put in a Cinco de Mayo. And of African American students are probably one of the Latino students had a problem with it's when I'm caught in the middle.

0id